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I have just completed a month of studying French in Lyon,
France (thank you to my Congregation for funding the studying). While studying I lived with a community of
Sisters of St Joseph of Lyon. It was a
total immersion for me in the French language and culture. As I have reflected on what it meant to me to
live in a different culture and try to communicate in a different language
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Together when we prayed the office I struggled mightily to
understand what page we were on- numbers are very hard for me to comprehend
once you get past 99. During my time to
read, I slaughtered the pronunciation.
Sometimes when we were offering prayers, I could understand what the
sisters were sharing but often not. I
might have wondered what the purpose was of attending these prayers when I
could understand so little and I really wondered why they didn’t just say I
didn’t need to read since what I read was so poor that it really disrupted the
flow. However, I found I both looked
forward to and dreaded (my pronunciation was really, really bad) this time
together.
In the middle of my studies, my community was invited to
join with a Lyon community of the Sisters of the Institut (part of the
congregation in Le Puy. We had a time to
visit, had an afternoon tea and then prayer together. I could follow about 1/3 of the
conversation. However, there came a time
when
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After that I think I understood why the praying together in
a way that is so different from what I usually do in the US was so
meaningful. It is where our togetherness
is deeply felt and shared and our commitment to mission is nurtured.
That leads me to think about my life with the sisters in St
Louis. For several years now, the
sisters at the mother house (about 20 of us) gather monthly for sharing of the
heart and the order of the house. Over
time the sharing has become deeper and I honestly believe that the atmosphere
of the house has deepened too. Now I
would articulate what I have been sensing for a while, it is when we are
together in prayer or in conversation, whether we understand what is being said
or not, it is when we recognize in each other the vital connections that we
have, that we more fully understand our mission together.
My local community in France |